Divorce is the New Black

Divorce is the New Black

What do you think when you hear the word divorce? You probably think what most people in our society think when they hear the word divorce: “The End.” “You Failed.” “What a Waste.” And if you happen to be a woman…

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VIDEO: How to Look Beautiful

VIDEO: How to Look Beautiful

So your  laundry list of goals is set! It only contains 17 goals, each with a subset for clarification and perfection assurance. Looks something like this: Lose 11 pounds. a) tighten up stomach b) maintain booty-licious Write epic novel. a) 10…

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I Hacked into My Teenager’s Facebook Account

I Hacked into My Teenager’s Facebook Account

After reading this story, you may think I’m the worst parent ever or you may think that I’m the best parent ever. Nevertheless, I proudly claim both titles because I earned them: Without her knowledge, I hacked into my teenager’s Facebook account.  I willingly peered into every…

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Don’t Sell Your House. Do Whatever it Takes But DO NOT Sell YOUR HOUSE!

Don’t Sell Your House. Do Whatever it Takes But DO NOT Sell YOUR HOUSE!

I grew up in Manhattan. That is New York City. Not Brooklyn. Not the Bronx. Not Queens. Not any other borough. Just Manhattan. THE CITY. A small island. We lived in a two bedroom, one bath apartment on the 30th floor…

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Use the Power of Positive Thinking to Change Your Life

Use the Power of Positive Thinking to Change Your Life

Like most people, I have experienced the constant chatter ringing in my ears. The voice I heard was filled with the fear of failure. When I listened closely, I heard snippets like these: “You can’t do that, what if you fail?” “You are too old…

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Should Freedom of Speech have Limits? Maybe.

Should Freedom of Speech have Limits? Maybe.

After two harrowing weeks in Paris, it behoves me to make a few enlightened comments. I use the word ‘enlightened’ not as a means to flatter myself into brilliance but instead to indicate that I am making observations based on the…

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10 Ways to Change Your Life in 2015

10 Ways to Change Your Life in 2015

How to create a happier you in 2015 It’s a new year and you’re ready to change your life, and become a new you. Here are just a few ideas to help you get on the road to becoming the person…

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Are You Masculine Enough to be Feminine? Effeminate Men are Sexy!

Are You Masculine Enough to be Feminine? Effeminate Men are Sexy!

My husband could not be anymore of a “man.” A macho, tough, tattooed, spitting, cursing, truck driving man. Really this is true. I met him when I was 14, and he was 16 in New York where we grew up. He…

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